Good Location

Now inside my head is always thinking where to get this good place to open the shop which my friend agreed to start our business...

Was thinking bout the new developed area in Setia Alam... But not so sure yet... Still have to do some study... How ah????...

*headache

Puzzle = Life

Start to play with my new puzzle, after I finished my last one before I left for my holiday... Ya, tonight just able to finished the border, that's the way I deal with my puzzle-draw the border.

Everytime when I'm playing my puzzle, I always remind myself, life just like puzzle, you have to find out the puzzle piece by piece and place it in the right place, then only you can see the whole picture clearly. And yes, in our life sometimes we might not know what we are doing in this moment, like doing nothing, but alright, for me a piece of black color puzzle can be very important for me to finish my big picture. Without this no-details one, my puzzle always not complete.

Life not always colorful, can be black, can be white, but still thats part of your life, no one said that's not important, no one can tell you which one should be in your picture. You just have to go through everything.

I like to draw out the border, because I always telling myself, everything you do, you must have a guideline, cannot be outside the border, and all the activities should be happen within inside. After you draw it out, you will know what's the size of your final picture...

Treat every single piece nicely, because you cannot lose one of them, none of it. Every single piece complete the picture, you have to be careful then. Each of them having their own responsibility given to colorful the whole picture.

Arrange your life like what I did to my puzzle, draw a border, look for the right direction, find out each single piece, allocate them and finish your picture... Step by step complete your LIFE PUZZLE...

First Day

Oh my... First day back to work after long holiday really kill me... Damn lazy to work, mood still in holiday-mode...

Luckily not too much to update, even after 9days off, means sales no good and nothing much happen in the Big Family...

After one week mood still be alright, and looking forward for my next holiday... Wonder any holiday trip is coming for the last quarter. *pray

*yawn... Can I off tomorrow??... -_-~~~ lazy

Think... Funny

Tell me how come this feller happen to be in between the two glasses???

Took this by the time I'm taking this MAS flight from BKI (Kota Kinabalu) to SDK (Sandakan). Find it's fun especially you put some imagination when you think of how come it can be stuck in there...

Fly Fight

Heard that Fireflyz will pull out their service from Sabah and Sarawak, with the reason of not making money. Really that bad?? Last year only I start taking Fireflyz to East Malaysia and now they already plan to pull out their service. I thought that since we have fireflyz, so we have more choices no matter in price or in schedule.

What I don't wish is they refund my CNY ticket, if they really do I don't think I'm going back for holiday anymore for the coming CNY.

AirAsia service getting worst, and they keep on putting on a lot of charges into the bill, whereby they telling us they still giving the lowest fare but the total fare charges still similar price with normal airfare. No point.

Really??? Do You Believe??!!

Do you really trust what published on the press??... Hmmm... Me? Don't think so... Don't think your people are stupid enough la...

我希望

这个晚上我希望我可以醉一点。那瓶酒并没有起到一点作用，我还是很清醒。

 

我好累. 寻了很多方案，还是不能够把事情解决，我还是站在原地。我并没有了解到到底他要什么。 已经多年的了解，但还是，没有赢得他的心。

 

可以告诉我我该怎么做吗？好无助，好彷徨，好失弱。我还可以撑多久？

Proposal

Finally today had my first proposal done d. Have to get it done right before I'm going back to meet my very best friend, this is what he requested about 9months back.

Of course still the same, I'll discuss with him about our friendship before everything, if he really cannot answer me perfectly then this proposal will not present to him anymore.

Me and him gone through a long way until today our friendship still that strong, stronger than other expected, because no one can imagine we able to become such a best friend. (because we're totally from the different world)

I'll not use our friendship to exchange with a business, which not sure work or not. But I really don't wish to exchange it with our 13years friendship, whereby it will not stop here but its still growing...

Going for Holiday

Taking a short break of 9-days from work, try to stay away from all the routine job, going off for a short holiday in KK and back to hometown after that.

Not saying I don't like my job, I'm happy with my working environment, enjoy the time working with the co-workers, but still, sometimes you wish to stay away for awhile, to recharge, to refresh yourself. Work is work, it's only part of my life, a very small part.

Most of my friends telling me I'm a person who really know how to enjoy my life, and yes, no reason to deny it. For me, life is short, life is difficult enough, life full will challenge, so why not giving yourself a break, a good time to enjoying it.

Some people said, I work very hard for the one whole year just for paying a single ticket for my europe trip. So means you suffer for 50weeks in a year for a 2weeks trip in Europe. Why?

Enjoying your life not only going for a trip, not once a year, but you can enjoying your life everyday. How?

For a coffee person, a cup of good coffee or your favorite drinks can be good enough when you taking a short break in between your work. After a short break I'm sure your job can be more effective. Don't simply get some drinks you don't really like but just get the one really match your taste, no point of spending time for something don't really works to cheer your day.

After work, you can have a glass of good wine, same as coffee, the one match with your taste, after your hot shower, or by the time you ready to relax yourself. For me, I'll try not to bring my work back to home, because I don't want to feel like I'm still in the office, work should be done in the office. And most of the people have a very bad habit, they treat their bed room like a multipurpose room, include to be their temporary office.

Friends always asking me, why you need two rooms, normally people only will rent a single room, but why you split it into bedroom and study room (more to like a small office). And my answer always the same, bedroom is to rest, not for work, so when you really want to do something at home, you can always use the study room. You only can found some magazine or many one or two books in my bedroom, whereby I read it when I enjoying my music or maybe on the sleepless night.

Please treat yourself a good meal during your day off, it really meant it to replace what you missed on your busy day. Don't always giving the same reason not to try something new, because it's one of the way of enjoying your life. People said always boring to have the same meals everyday, so why not going for something different. Some people dare not or not willing to try something they not really sure, so they always go back for what they familiar with, that's always boring. Travel a bit on your day off, try to look for something new or something you never try, surprise always there.

For me, a short break every quarter in a year is needed, and you deserve it. Taking a break not to spend a lot of money travel to luxury places, but just a small break away from your living place.

For me, 3days away always good, a short break to enjoy the sunset on the beach, have some fresh air in the highland, or a short trip to visit done village away from the city, always a good time to relax your mind and your soul.

Please do something within your budget, don't plan for something which you know you'll suffer after that or something out of your control. Each of us have our own way to enjoy life, God gives us the same rights to enjoy all his creation. There is no equation or formula teaching you how to enjoy your life, but yourself will know what to do.

Happy life for all my friends and enjoy the moment given to us by our heavenly Father.

Do Some Research

After I read the cover of this so-called Malaysia Travel Guide Book, I really wish to ask the book store to return all the books. What's wrong??? Please look at the name of the place used by this Taiwanese writer.

麻六甲(Malacca) should be 马六甲
兰卡威(Langkawi) should be 浮罗交怡

Really laugh die me...

Name for a place equal to the name for a person, How dare you change other people's name... This so called writer never do her research before she starts her work to introduce all these places to others.

Luckily she didn't put our country under this name - 麻来西亚, if not sure this lady in big trouble then...

加油！

Found some funny words right behind the label of my uniform... Very sweet slogan.

为您打气
好一句贴心的标语，为这班职员打打气。是有一点隐蔽，但还是被我发现了。

What Will You Do

If one day, your loved one telling you he's getting married, (of course you're not the one) and he's using this as an excuse leaving you... What will you do???

Of course you will tell me: I don't know. Yes, totally agree, if it's really happen on me of course my mind will be out, totally out, blank. No one will know what to do next.

Then next of course you will ask: WHY??!?? Not only asking him why, mostly he'll keep silent or keep telling you sorry, but you're asking yourself too. You looking for an answer and wish to solve it out.

But finally you found that it's not because of you, but he's giving you a really 'strong reason', a reason which you cannot even say a single word: because his family want him to do so (full stop)

And now you realize you're actually nothing for him, but just a temporary lover until the day is come, until he cannot stand for the pressure given by his parents anymore, then he'll choose to tell you something you can't really accept.

Ya, at this moment, you do nothing, since you unable to do anything but just leave. Very sad, nothing can do, helpless, disappointed,... Everything mixed as a package. You wish that he just leave, you wish that he can lie to you telling you he become straight, you wish he just do anything but not telling you the truth, the real truth.

You might say that this will never happen to you, but if it's really happen???... What will you do???

My answer: just leave, at least you still a good guy inside of him. No matter how sad just try to be strong, at least just for that moment. Love him, just like the first time.

Open Relationship

Discussed this topic with one of the friend, just wanted to know how can people do this. This friend who have this idea share it with his partner which they both are first lover for each other and they walk together on the same path for the past 10yrs, and from there their relationship status from exclusive become 'open for others'.

The reason why they do this because they both wanna 'try' something different, wanna have some new experience. Or make it simple, they're getting bored after 10yrs and wish to have something make them feel fresh and excited.

Of course he did explained and said their relationship is open but they still love each other, it's open just for the sex part, they find that there is no reason to tell lie when they wanna play around, some more they can share their experience with each other too. And he told me they did tried for threesome.

Ok, maybe I didn't have the experience like they have, 10yrs being together, and maybe I don't understand they way they doing it to make their relationship to last longer. They still love each other but at the same time they wish to explore a bit and to look at the world out there.

For my side I don't think I can do it, even if my partner asking for it, because I don't know how to face it when you man telling you: last night i'd a marvelous night with this guy, we did this and that, he's great with this n that, we tried this and that, and looking forward to do this and that during our next session... This and this and this... -_-|||

Yes, maybe sometimes we may eating out, but doesn't mean you can always do that, and asking permission to do so. Love cannot share, maybe you will say there is no love but only action, then why you have to choose to do it with someone you don't really love but not with the one always next to you.

Life have to be fun, but there is many way to making it fun enough. Don't make it fun for yourself but hurt someone loves you.

I still wish to be 'exclusive' for someone.